As engaged couples prepare to embark on the beautiful journey of marriage, it’s essential to ground your relationship in values that will sustain you through all of life’s adventures. At James & Katie Stokes, we understand this deeply, as we’ve been blessed with a marriage that began in 2007, a loving family of ten children, and a shared passion for our dream businesses. From our home on a charming hobby farm, we photograph love and adventure around the globe for couples who cherish their faith in Jesus.

1. Root Your Marriage in Faith

The foundation of a strong marriage is built on faith. We believe that by prioritizing your relationship with God, you’ll strengthen your bond with each other. Spend time in prayer, attend church together, and study the Bible as a couple. These practices will help guide you through challenges and deepen your connection.

2. Embrace the Power of Forgiveness

Marriage is a journey with its share of ups and downs. Remember to extend grace and forgiveness, just as Christ forgives us. When conflicts arise, approach each other with understanding and a willingness to forgive. This mindset will foster a more resilient and loving relationship.

3. Communicate Openly and Honestly

Effective communication is key to a thriving marriage. Be open about your feelings, dreams, and concerns. Listen to each other with empathy and patience. By sharing your thoughts and listening to your partner, you build trust and create a deeper understanding.

4. Prioritize Quality Time Together

In the midst of busy schedules and family life, make time for each other. Whether it’s a date night or a quiet moment together, these interactions are vital for maintaining intimacy and connection. Cherish these moments and keep the romance alive.

5. Serve Each Other with Love

Marriage is a partnership where both individuals contribute to each other’s happiness. Serve each other selflessly, as Jesus taught us to serve one another. Small acts of kindness and support go a long way in nurturing a loving and supportive relationship.

6. Keep God at the Center

Lastly, always keep God at the center of your marriage. Seek His guidance in decision-making and trust in His plan for your life together. With faith as your foundation, your relationship will be blessed with strength, joy, and unwavering love.

We are honored to share these insights with you as you prepare for your journey together. May your marriage be filled with love, adventure, and a deep connection to each other and to God.

With blessings,

James & Katie Stokes

PS: Here is our Favorite Book for Couples

“You and Me Forever” by Francis Chan, co-authored with his wife, Lisa Chan, is a compelling exploration of how marriage can be a powerful reflection of God’s love and purpose. The book delves into the Biblical foundation of marriage, emphasizing that a Christ-centered relationship is not only about personal happiness but also about fulfilling God’s greater plan. Through insightful teachings and practical advice, the Chans challenge couples to view their marriage as a mission to glorify God, fostering a deep, enduring connection that goes beyond earthly concerns.

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